Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Friday, May 17, 2024

IMPHΔL DIΔRIΣS : MΣ, MΨSΣLҒ & I

This blog is dedicated to a  friend who is just my mirror  image .....it's like deja vu ....seeing oneself again ....same style to handle situation....Self worth ...self Image ..attitude...arrogance ..n most importantly love  oneself 

Have I reached to my potential 
Yes...to an extent ....

I want her  ...to reach to her full potential ....as I feel she has to  realize her self yet...or to say do self discovery

Please know it 
Once you know yourself......YOU are left with 

No Fear

 This is a challenge because our family, friends  and society trains us to stay the course and to fear change. But when your overall mission in life is realized  fear takes a back seat.

 Have no fear, and be willing to fail....

As you know

None of us were  born with instruction manuals. From the time we enter the world, our parents or other caretakers mould us to conform to their value system. Since we are dependent on them, and our brains have not fully formed, we do not know any different. The bubble in which  we live in as we grow may be beneficial or damaging, depending on how well our innate personalities thrive within the constraints of these  bubbles....

As you grow up, you may continue as it is or try to find meaning.  Until you find yourself, you will forever be confined to the bubble created for you. This can manifest into an inherent sense of something amiss in your life, though you may not know exactly what’s wrong. That's how most of people live.....

When you are in the wrong place in your life, whether it’s the wrong relationship, profession or dress  size, it wears you down over time with an impact on your overall well-being. 


Being true to yourself is energizing because knowing what  You really  need  drives you to get there...not what others make you feel what you need.....



Your Self

You r exceptionally good ..its just that you have never appreciated your strengths, and embraced your core values. The power of knowledge about your true self instills confidence, which in turn calms your fears because self-assurance won’t let failure define you. When you are confident, you believe in yourself and find inner strength from your values. 



More Benefits

Some people seem to be lucky in life, but maybe it is not luck at all. People who have found their true selves are attuned to opportunities presented to them. If you do not know what brings you joy and fulfillment, you can easily miss the gateway to the next chapter in your life. If you have self-awareness and a clear vision of the life you were meant to have, you will recognize and open the right doors.


Knowing what you need in life to feel complete will also help you in your career tooooo. Your priorities shift so that you can build a career that integrates into your life instead of juggling the events in your life to revolve around a job that leaves you unfulfilled. 

If you don’t love what you do, then you shouldn’t do it.”


List of different tips to find yourself

Sense of Your Past

We all are a product of our past experiences. Your upbringing, relationships, successes, failures and how you managed all those scenarios reveals itself in the person you are today. Once you acknowledge and understand the past, you can come to terms with it and own it. Make a conscious decision to break the pattern of self-destructive behavior, and reinforce behavior that forms the person you want to be...


What You Want In Life

As YOU will  look within and unravel the  baggage in your life, the following may help you to decode it....

  1. What are you passionate about? If you could drop everything right now, where would you want to be?
  2. What are the patterns of behaviors and consequences of your past? What drove those behaviors?
  3. What is the positive feedback you have heard from people over the years? What has filled you with a sense of pride and accomplishment?
  4. What causes do you care about? What sparks your sense of compassion? What injustice enrages you?

Self-Realization

We waste much of ourtime trying to fit in and modeling the behavior, good or bad, of people from whom we want recognition. Part of being an adult is realizing that it is what sets us apart that makes people special....

AS YOU R ALREADY SPECIAL  Finding your true self is about discovering and learning to love what makes you unique....

I believe you  will Touch the Sky with Glory in your journey ...of Life ...As I know you r 

                              THE


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