Saturday, September 16, 2023

Sometimes it's just fun to understand  happening in our life which are too complicated in just two words or a phrase....

I have tried to compile some of them which seems relevant to me and which can be beneficial to our lives.....

 Murphy’s Law


It states that “what can go wrong will go wrong”. 

We all have probably experienced moments of misery countless times. The day you leave your house without an umbrella, it starts to rain heavily.  You go to the bathroom, and your phone starts ringing from the other room. 


 You may think that the whole world in some eerie ways is conspiring to make mockery of you, demean you, and defeat you.

The more you fear something, the more it will happen. Allowing fear to get the best part of you is just another way of making up excuses and stopping yourself from doing what you ought to do in  the simplest form.


Ostrich Syndrome 


Don’t make excuses. Not making excuses is the first step to correcting a mistake and conquering fear. No interest, no use doing it, I don’t get it...It is a fatal weakness of a person to always look for objective factors to blame for everything.

Here is a little story

Someone asked a farmer, "Have you planted wheat?"

The farmer answered, "Not yet, I'm afraid it's going to rain."

The man then asked, "So have you planted cotton yet?"

Farmer said: "No, I'm worried that there will be worms eating the cotton."

The man asked again, "And what exactly did you plant?"

Farmer answered: "I didn’t grow anything. That’s the safest way to go."

 

Kidlin’s Law


If you can write a problem down clearly, then the matter is half solved.

1) Define the problem: The first step is to write down the problem clearly and concisely. 

2) Analyse the problem: The next step is to break down the problem into smaller and simpler parts.

3) Generate solutions: The third step is brainstorming possible solutions for each part of the problem. 

4) Evaluate solutions: The fourth step is to evaluate your answers and choose the best one for each part of the problem.

5) Implement solutions: The final step is to implement your chosen answers and monitor their results..


Gilbert’s Laws

One should not just follow the defined approach but should think outside of the box and possible solutions to the problem, and this is what the law states no one will tell you what to do and how to do it perfectly but you must learn to do that.

The biggest problems at work is that no one tells you what to do. The "Rule of Apple” also applies at work. What you do first is more important than how many things you do. If there are good and bad apples in a pile, which one do you eat first? The answer is: you eat the good apples first and throw the bad away because if you eat the bad apples first, the good apples will go bad slowly, and you’ll never have the sweet good apple.

 Walson’s Law


If you put information and intelligence first at all times then the money keeps coming in.

Many people do things better than you, not because they are more capable than you, but because they have more information than you. In our efforts to improve our professional skills, we often lose sight of another important thing: information.

Karma law


Who you are today is as a result of your previous action; everything in your life, including your past, present and future are connected.

Falkland’s Law


If you don’t have to make a decision then don’t make a decision.

Golden Rule

Don’t do to others what you do not want them to do to your.

Acton's Dictum

 Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Brandolini’s Law


The amount of energy needed to refute bullshit is an order of magnitude bigger than to produce it.

Cantillon Effect


The flow path of new money matters — those closest to the source and entry point of the new money benefit first and most handsomely.

Cheops Law

Nothing ever gets built on schedule or within budget.

Cunningham’s Laws


The best way to get the right answer on the internet is not to ask a question, it’s to post the wrong answer.

Littlewood’s  Law

In the course of any normal person’s life, miracles happen at a rate of roughly one per months.

Occam’s  Razor


When two or more explanations are offered for a phenomenon, the simplest full explanation is preferable.

Orgel’s Rule

Evolution is cleverer than you are.

Pareto Principle

For many phenomena 80% of consequences stem from 20% of the causes.

Parkinson’s Law

Work expands to fill the time available for its completion.

Corollary: Expenditure rises to meet income.

Parkinson’s  Law of Triviality

The time spent on any agenda item will be in inverse proportion to the sum of money involved.

Peter Principle


In a hierarchy, every employee tends to rise to his level of incompetence.


Streisand Effect


Any attempt to hide, remove, or censor a piece of information has the unintended consequence of publicizing the information more widely.

Monday, September 11, 2023

Imphal Diaries: Excuse-moi, tu as l'heure ? le flirt!!

Excuse me, do you have the time? or interest

One generally thinks that indulging in some harmless flirting could only get one, the attention of that other person, think again......


Flirting does more than just this, it is also a powerful tool which can help people feel good about themselves and moreover, generates lot of positive energy....

Nowadays social media is new medium of flirting.....

People flirt by messaging  for many reasons: fun, relaxation, escape, connection, affection. A flirty text conversation should aim to be warm, funny, and a little thrilling. Asking creative questions, referencing inside jokes or memories, cracking a few jokes, and sending a selfie can help fuel the banter. Reaching out on social media, such as through a message or reaction on Instagram, Facebook  can also lay the foundation for an exchange...


The process allows a person to signal interest in small increments, and enables both parties to gauge the interest level of the other.It is driven by emotions and instinct rather than by logical thought. Yet profound information is transmitted in flirting...


The hallmarks of flirting are surprisingly universal. Women often smile, arch their eyebrows and widen their eyes, tuck their chin down and turn slightly to the side, toss their hair, put their hands near their mouth, and laugh. Men, for their part, often arch their back, stretch their chest, and laugh as well. 

It helps to....


Makes one feel good:  It can make one feel good and also, reduce stress levels. And God knows how much we need those instant stress-busters in today’s fast-paced and ultra-competitive world. 


Helps build confidence and self-esteem: Nothing works better when you’re trying to make a good impression on someone than the aura of self-confidence. People who are sure of themselves somehow just manage to say and do the right things at the right time, and we all know the ‘charming’ benefits of this. Also, being in a relationship for a long time can sometimes make one partner take the other for granted, thus lowering the self-esteem of the other person. A little harmless flirting can go a long way to make you feel attractive and confident about yourself again. 


Makes you feel Charming: Flirting with a person of the opposite gender and getting a favourable response in return can indeed up your hotness quotient by at least a couple of notches. It is a known fact that flirting helps build positive energy. ...


जो रंग बदलना जानते है,
 जिंदगी उन्हीं की रंगीन है।😁


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