This quote was once shared with me by a friend
“People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When one figures out which one it is, one will know what to do for each person….”.
One does not meet people by accident – they come into our life for a reason.
Yes, even the irritating ones.
If a relationship doesn’t survive the test of time, it doesn’t mean it still wasn’t meant to be.
Not all encounters with people are supposed to last forever.
Sometimes the “forever” is not the person – but what we gain from them.
There’s a harmony and purpose for each person you meet....
Friendships and relationships, even workplace colleagues nearly always come to an end — as is the natural circle of life. The nature of life is constant change. And change can be a real bitch to say the very least. It can be totally devastating.
One can rest assured on this fact that it is almost certain — one poof and something happens (e.g redundancy, break up, death, car accident) and everything changes...
Comfort is only in putting something through a different lens to view in a different way.
When someone is in our life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need one expressed. They have come to assist us through a difficulty; to provide us with guidance and support..
They seem like a godsend, and they are. Then, without any wrongdoing on our part…they r gone....
When some people come into our life for a SEASON, it is probably our turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring us an experience of peace or make us laugh. They may teach us something one has never done. Believe it. It is real.
But this is only for a short period of time....
LIFETIME relationships remains,
One has to build a solid emotional foundation. One's job is to accept the person , love & trust the person,
and put one has learned to use in all other relationships and areas of our life....
TYPES which I put my RELATIONSHIPS
FLYOVER
These people are not meant to last for the long road ahead. They are an enjoyable pathway to get us to where we need to go.
These people are needed to arrive exactly at the time and place you met them – to transport us to the next level of our life journey.
One meet these people for a reason – even if they are only here for a season.
JAM....MERS
These people come into your life to delay us – for both little things and big things.
For example,
one might have a conversation with someone – which then delays and prevents you from getting into accident.Sometimes rejection is a redirection to something better....
Well, that’s what these people do. They might show up as a rejector – but they are a redirector.GURU
Often our tormentors double duty as as mentors.
They are here to teach us important life lessons – via the process of pain – which helps us to grow ...
Some people are just straight-up inspiring teachers – who teach us life lessons in a more loving manner.
Devdoot
These people are here to protect us and remind us to stay safe and stay self loving.
They are “guardian angels” of some sort.
Their purpose: Make sure that one does not stray too far from the path one is meant to be on.
In times of need and desperation they help us – when others are not there for
CLAN
These are the ones who are here to stay the long haul.
These people are far and few between – but they are the ones who are loyally there for you during tough times and celebratory times.
They see one clearly and accept one as he/she with flaws
Clan members support when one is invisible to others.
Clan members root for one with a pure heart – when others might feel competitive or jealous.
Anamika
They represent and symbolize something one desires...
They r dreams... They come... Let us fulfill a dream N vanish
As if they were never there
